Due to my own nefarious behavior I've led my wife to want to separate from me, I am sure divorce will come easy after that. I was involved in illegal behavior behind my wife's back and its all come to a head. I lost my job over what I did, and when I told her it devastated her. She has been married 2x before me (my first), both with bitter endings, and now this one can be added to the count. I feel like a complete failure because I did what I did without taking into account what I was doing to the people around me who love me, to her, to me, to my side of the family and hers. I am going through the gamut of emotions, suffering painfully because I am the cause. Sometimes I am angry at her for not standing by me, and I feel like she is only thinking of herself by isolating herself from the legal ramifications of my actions. Then I feel like I have no right to blame her for wanting to isolate herself from me, and I realize that I have violated her trust, and without trust, there can't be a marriage. At this point in my life I know that I NEED to get some help, (both legal and otherwise) so I can start getting my life back, whether it includes her or not. I am in a bad space, but I have to keep believing that things will get better for me...
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