mennathefilmer
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posted on 02-16-2008 at 13:13 |
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I really fucked up
this actually happened about twenty, thirty minutes ago. I was masturbating with this weird little massager. i felt pain, but didn't think much of it since sometimes that happens and nothings wrong. then i looked at my hand and saw what looked like a little smear of blood. i felt down a little bit and when i looked at my hand there was alot of blood. i immediately took a shower hoping my period had come since i have been feeling craps for the last few days, but after i showered the blood was gone and now im really distressed. also im still feeling a bit of pain. ive been sort of a prude about when i lose my virginity and who to, since i wouldnt want that experience to be anything id regret. now ive gone and fucked around and lost it to myself. this has really upset me because ive read other sweet stories about girls losing it and now im thinking that i cant feel that. ive heard that sometimes girls havent completely broken their hymens when they first bleed. that it takes a couple more times. i know it sounds peculiar, but i feel like the blood and the pain is part of the experience. and its a shame that i cant experience that after guarding it for so long. damn, i should of been guarding it against myself too. i know everyones different but im hoping that someone with a similar experience can weigh in. im in dire need of reassurance. now im off to cry myself to sleep.
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tLakota
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posted on 02-20-2008 at 00:41 |
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You're fine
I broke my hymen on 3 separate occasions and part of it is still there. And I masturbate often, sometimes with inserted objects. So, yeah, you're fine. It'll still hurt like a bitch when you actually have sex, and if you don't insert anything, ever, it'll probably fuse together again. (Yes, there have been cases of people having sex with partners and this still happened) So hang in there. The only way you can lose it to yourself would be to get a full size dildo and use it often. And also, in my case, in each case the pain was terrible and dramatic and I stopped immediately. So, you know, you'll definitely feel it when you find that special guy to give your gift to. Chin up, and keep educating yourself. You'll be fine! :)
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moonlite
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posted on 03-11-2008 at 04:24 |
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Possible Injury
I hope that when i marry I still have not injured myself by any previous activity. I have ridden bicycles since a child and have ridden horses and was a cheerleader in high school. I have never used tampons. It is my hope that my future husband will understand. If there is pain I want to bear the pain for the one I really love. I hope that i find someone who will appreciate all this. Also hope that he would understand that the injury could have been by activities such as those listed above.  
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LDSjay2
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posted on 06-11-2008 at 09:30 |
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A man's perspective...
That is so incredibly sweet, that you want the moment of truth, that one moment when you give your body and soul to the man you love, to be the one when you give your all, your virginity.
That said, I wouldn't worry about your experience. As a man, virginity isn't a matter of biology. A virgin, regardless of what she has done to her self, remains a virgin, so long as she never has had sex with a man. So stop worrying! That magic moment is still yours! Yours to give, yours to savor and cherish and remember for the rest of your life.
You need to go out with me. You don't need to do or say any thing, just come along. I'll take care of every thing, you can just have fun and relax. Bring a friend and you will be safe and feel absolutely no pressure. Easy...
I get hit on all the time by beautiful women, because I am tall, dark and decent to look at, but they are all out for sex. Of course I want sex, I'm a man, but... I am seeking a virgin woman. A rare diamond among common stones, a fair budding flower set amidst the crowding weeds. Not to sound mellodramatic, but I would cross deserts and traverse mountains to find one
such. And when I find her, I'm going to keep her for the rest of my life.
Sound interesting?
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markallan
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posted on 06-14-2008 at 13:43 |
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LDSjay
says "And when I find her, I'm going to keep her for the rest of my life." Sounds like a man's attitude of women 150 years ago. Women are not chattel.
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Fairy_Girl
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posted on 09-06-2008 at 14:09 |
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Thanks
And I thought i was the only one, LOL. This happened to me sometime back when my parents werent home, it scared me to death I thought something was wrong. I finally looked into it.
I thought that when you break your hymen you are no longer a wirgin? Is that not true?
This is great news, I can tell everyone im still a wirgin again.
Thanks everyone.
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