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Sebastian

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posted on 06-28-2010 at 08:49

seperated but still living together

Hello this is my first post here, I'm in a situation where my wife and I have just seperated but still live in the same house. We have been in seperate bedrooms for about 5 years now, dueto the fact that I am a shift worker and need to sleep late. Things have not beem good for a while and thay started to get better about 4 months ago, or so I thought. Ten days ago my wife tells me that she is in love with a woman, a close family freind. The two of them have talked about it extencivly and there is no way that the other woman will take it futher than freindship. Both familys children are best freinds. The other husband is fine about it and so am I because it explains a lot about our sexual relationship over our married life. My wife and I have been getting along like we were in ther begining when we firsyt meet. I have more love and respect for her now than when we were together and fun has came back into family life. At this stage we are not going to sell the house and live in seperate places because of the kids and the expense. I don't feel like dating anybody because I'm not there yet, it's great so far but I am afraid that my wife will damage the freindship and the kids will lose there best freinds. This may be an odd situation but I feel we can make it work. The only thing that has changed in our relationship is that there is no expectation of sex and a huge weight has been lifted of us. I would like to eventualy see somebody but I have no idea how they are going to take our arrangment.

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mirandacruz

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posted on 06-29-2010 at 05:21

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What an odd situation you are in buddy. But I feel for you. I hope it gets better.

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Sebastian

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posted on 06-29-2010 at 07:31

odd sitch

'What an odd situation you are in buddy. But I feel for you. I hope it gets better. '

Thanks, it is somewhat odd but we're dealing with it. I'm trying to find a divorced mens group in the area that I live.

perthelizabeth

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posted on 07-29-2010 at 09:08

hello

here are a lot of stipulations involved in representing yourself in court but if you follow that basic outline then you should do well. I personally had a lawyer when I got a divorce but I did a bunch of research on the issue beforehand and everything that you recommend here is in a nutshell what I have read through hours of research.

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XO_stepdad

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posted on 10-18-2010 at 10:09

odd perspective

I am a bit confused about your situation, because you said that you aren't sure how a future date might accept your situation. Don't you think that, if you are planning on getting a divorce and the relationship is essentially over, you should try and figure out a different living situation? I'm sure it's not financially responsible to run out and get your own place right away, but by the time you are dating new people don't you think you should have your own place?

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