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Author: BillTravels Subject: Ex is spying on me
mom2teengrls
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posted on 01-03-2011 at 14:44 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Ex is spying on me

WE have divorced, but he still feels like he should monitor my life??? Somehow he's put this weird cellphone software on my phone called bigdaddyspy blueware, and he's been listening in on my telephone calls. The odd thing is that he hasn't had access to my cellphone, but he's still been able to repeat complete conversations that I've had with other people. The guy at the cellphone shop told me that I had this software on my phone-- If I wouldn't have taken my phone in for repair, I would have never known that my ex is spying on me. I don't want to report him to the police, but I have to put an end to his spying. Should I call the police or try to talk to him again?
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posted on 01-18-2011 at 16:14 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Re: Ex is spying

If you decide not to go to the police, be sure to document everything. That way, you'll have the information should you need to involve the police later. For this particular incident, you'll want to include the name of the associate at the store, plus the day and approximate time you took your phone in for service. If you choose to confront your ex, do not do so alone. You should have at least one witness. If you believe he is potentially violent, contact the police. If you are out and think he is following you, drive directly to a police station. Good luck!
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posted on 02-01-2011 at 09:22 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Agreed

I would agree with everything Gary has mentioned - definitely document everything that is happening, and maybe even note the conversations he has repeated so you don't forget them later. If you confront him, definitely do so with another person present, both for a witness and for the safety factor. I also agree that if he is a violent person, and/or has been obviously angry about the divorce, go to the police. You have the right, since he is breaking the law. I understand your hesitation because you obviously married him for certain reasons, and you cared and loved him before - but it does not make sense to put yourself into danger when you do not have to.

Are you suspecting he is doing anything else besides monitoring your cell phone conversations? If so, you need to go to the police. Did you have that monitoring software taken off of your phone? If not ,I'm sure you can find someone who can.
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